Sunday, February 5, 2012

Chinese water torture

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Chinese water torture is a process in which water is slowly dripped onto a person's forehead, allegedly driving the restrained victim insane. Women if you are constantly nagging your husband (boyfriend) this could be consider torture and will eventually drive him to brink of insanity. Proverbs 27:15 A continual dropping in a very rainy day and a contentious woman are alike. I been there, done that it doesn't work. Here are two definitions that are important
1. nagging- To annoy by constant scolding, complaining, or urging.
2. contentious- tending to argue or quarrel
If your using one or both of these method to get your spouse (boyfriend) right . PLEASE STOP IT FOR THE SAKE OF HIS INSANITY OR YOUR MARRIAGE (Relationship). It is not your job to get anyone right but SELF. Go to God and leave His job to Him. Focus on what He has called you to do which is to respect your spouse. I dont care if you had been doing it for five minutes or 15 years it needs to stop today. Your house should be contentious free and a no nagging zone. As a woman, I don't want to compared to a rainy day because sometimes too much rain shuts things down, it can destroy and besides that you cant build anything in the rain. Trust me when I say when you stop the nagging and start praying Watch God Move in your Marriage.

Men if you see this in your wife (girlfriend) pray for her to be delivered from that spirit and while you are praying please ask God to help you discern between nagging and addressing concerns there is a difference and if she is addressing concerns she has that right. If a woman feels that she has to nag you to get something done then it is a communication breakdown some where and as the leader of your home it is your responsibility to address it.

Be encouraged it is never too late to begin again.

God Bless

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